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Relationships & Communication book summaries

The best relationship and communication book summaries — dating, marriage, parenting, and conflict, distilled.

How to Win Friends and Influence People cover

How to Win Friends and Influence People

Dale Carnegie

4-min read

How to Talk to Anyone cover

How to Talk to Anyone

Leil Lowndes

6-min read

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ cover

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ

Daniel Goleman

4-min read

Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships cover

Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships

Eric Berne

5-min read

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus cover

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

John Gray

5-min read

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire cover

The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire

David Deida

5-min read

The Art of Loving cover

The Art of Loving

Erich Fromm

3-min read

All About Love: New Visions cover

All About Love: New Visions

bell hooks

4-min read

The Glass Castle: A Memoir cover

The Glass Castle: A Memoir

Jeannette Walls

5-min read

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High cover

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High

Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler

3-min read

Attached cover

Attached

Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

5-min read

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty cover

Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

Mark Manson

3-min read

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life cover

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Emily Nagoski

6-min read

Crying in H Mart: A Memoir cover

Crying in H Mart: A Memoir

Michelle Zauner

5-min read

Boundaries cover

Boundaries

Henry Cloud and John Townsend

4-min read

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents cover

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

Lindsay C. Gibson

6-min read

No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life cover

No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

Robert A. Glover

5-min read

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships cover

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships

Marshall B. Rosenberg

3-min read

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving cover

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving

David Richo

3-min read

The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter—And How to Make the Most of Them Now cover

The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter—And How to Make the Most of Them Now

Meg Jay

5-min read

Hold Me Tight cover

Hold Me Tight

Sue Johnson

5-min read

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk cover

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish

2-min read

The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth cover

The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values and Spiritual Growth

M. Scott Peck

5-min read

Codependent No More cover

Codependent No More

Melody Beattie

5-min read

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind cover

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind

Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson

5-min read

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work cover

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

John M. Gottman and Nan Silver

3-min read

Forgiving What You Can't Forget cover

Forgiving What You Can't Forget

Lysa TerKeurst

3-min read

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence cover

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

Esther Perel

5-min read

The Relationship Cure cover

The Relationship Cure

John M. Gottman and Joan DeClaire

3-min read

Relationship Goals cover

Relationship Goals

Michael Todd

3-min read

How to Know a Person cover

How to Know a Person

David Brooks

7-min read

The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More cover

The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More

Jefferson Fisher

5-min read

Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection cover

Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection

Charles Duhigg

5-min read

The Happiest Baby on the Block cover

The Happiest Baby on the Block

Harvey Karp

2-min read

Fight Right cover

Fight Right

Julie Schwartz Gottman and John M. Gottman

5-min read

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts cover

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

Gary Chapman

2-min read

Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage cover

Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage

Belle Burden

3-min read

The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness cover

The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Scientific Study of Happiness

Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz

2-min read

The Art of Seduction cover

The Art of Seduction

Robert Greene

5-min read

Frequently asked questions

What are the best Relationships & Communication books?

Among the most widely read relationships & communication titles summarized on SummaryShelf are How to Win Friends and Influence People, How to Talk to Anyone, Emotional Intelligence, Games People Play, and Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus — ordered here by how many readers have shelved them.

Where should I start with Relationships & Communication?

How to Win Friends and Influence People is the most-read pick in this topic and a solid place to begin. Each summary is a 4–5 minute read, so you can sample a few before deciding what to read in full.

How many Relationships & Communication book summaries are on SummaryShelf?

39, and growing — each distilled to its core ideas in a few minutes.