<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Forgiveness on SummaryShelf</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/tags/forgiveness/</link><description>Recent content in Forgiveness on SummaryShelf</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://summaryshelf.app/tags/forgiveness/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Forgiving What You Can't Forget</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/forgiving-what-you-cant-forget/</link><pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://summaryshelf.app/forgiving-what-you-cant-forget/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;When you refuse to forgive someone, you feel like you&amp;rsquo;re holding them accountable. You&amp;rsquo;re not. You&amp;rsquo;re holding yourself hostage. The cynicism, bitterness, and resentment that grow around an unhealed wound pose as armor, but all they really do is isolate you and keep you chained to the person who hurt you. Lysa TerKeurst&amp;rsquo;s central claim is that forgiveness was never about them. It doesn&amp;rsquo;t require their apology, their remorse, or even their awareness. It&amp;rsquo;s a choice you make for your own freedom — and you remake it daily until the injury stops running your life.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>