Feminism on SummaryShelf

Untamed

Tue, 13 Aug 2024 00:00:00 +0000

A life arranged entirely around other people’s expectations is a cage — and it’s one you helped build. Glennon Doyle’s wager in Untamed is that the quiet inner signal she calls the Knowing deserves more trust than any outside authority, even when following it costs a marriage and a public identity built on Christian values.

We Should All Be Feminists

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000

Laws changed faster than habits. Women won the vote, legal pay equality, and the right to an abortion, and yet a woman can enter any profession and still be talked over, addressed through the man beside her, and penalized for the same assertiveness that reads as leadership in him. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie wrote this essay because she kept meeting people, including women, who thought feminism had done its job — that the freedoms were now equal, so the argument was over. She answers with a small, exact scene. A friend of hers doubted feminism was still relevant until they went to dinner and she handed the valet a tip; the valet thanked her friend. In one gesture, the invisible became visible: the reflex that treats the man as the one who matters, even when the woman is standing right there doing the thing.

Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead

Thu, 24 Aug 2023 00:00:00 +0000

Women are still strikingly absent from the top. They earn 57 percent of undergraduate and 60 percent of master’s degrees in the U.S., yet hold just 4 percent of Fortune 500 CEO seats, and the pay gap has crept only from 59 cents on the dollar in 1970 to 77 cents in 2010. Sheryl Sandberg’s central argument is that this gap is held in place from two directions at once. On the outside, bias punishes ambitious women and reads them as unlikeable. On the inside, self-doubt makes many women pull back before anyone pushes. Closing it takes both halves: women leaning into opportunity, and men carrying an equal share at home.

Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 00:00:00 +0000

When crash-test dummies are built to male proportions, drug trials enroll mostly men, and smartphones are sized for male hands, women end up hurt — not because anyone set out to harm them, but because the data we design the world from quietly leaves female bodies and lives out. Caroline Criado Pérez calls this the gender data gap, and her central point is how ordinary it is. “One of the most important things to say about the gender data gap is that it is not generally malicious, or even deliberate.” It’s the residue of thousands of years of treating men as the default human: “when we say human, on the whole, we mean man.” The habit runs deep — Aristotle cast women as aberrations from the male norm, female organs were named centuries after their male counterparts, and even today the UK has more statues of men named John than of all non-royal women combined.

Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage

Wed, 17 Jun 2026 00:00:00 +0000

Belle Burden’s twenty-year marriage ended with a stranger’s voicemail. It was March 2020, the first days of the pandemic, and she had retreated with her three children and her husband, James, to their home on Martha’s Vineyard. Then the message arrived: “I’m sorry to tell you this, but your husband is having an affair with my wife.” The next morning James told her he wanted a divorce and drove back to New York, and his follow-up text set the tone for everything that came after: “I’ll answer what I want, when I want. I’ll speak when I want. I’ll decide when I want.” The heart of the memoir isn’t the affair, though. It’s how a single accommodation Belle made two decades earlier, to keep the peace before her wedding, became the tool that nearly destroyed her—and how the instinct to make it traced back through generations of women in her family.