How to Do the Work

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +0000

Your body remembers what your mind would rather forget. The reason you keep picking unavailable partners, snapping over dirty dishes, or agreeing to things you don’t want isn’t weak willpower. It’s a nervous system running programs installed in childhood, before you could consent to them. This is why insight rarely fixes anything: understanding your patterns intellectually doesn’t reach the place where they actually live. Nicole LePera’s argument is that real change is physical and incremental. It comes from meeting the needs nobody met for you, through small choices repeated every single day.

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How to Do the Work