<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Mel Robbins on SummaryShelf</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/authors/mel-robbins/</link><description>Recent content in Mel Robbins on SummaryShelf</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://summaryshelf.app/authors/mel-robbins/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>The Let Them Theory</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/let-them-theory/</link><pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://summaryshelf.app/let-them-theory/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Two short phrases handle almost everything that drains you. &lt;em&gt;Let Them&lt;/em&gt; releases your grip on what other people do. &lt;em&gt;Let Me&lt;/em&gt; returns you to the only thing you actually control: what you do next. Mel Robbins found the idea while spinning out over her son&amp;rsquo;s prom, until her daughter told her to let the kids enjoy it their way. The stress vanished, and Robbins realized how much of her life she&amp;rsquo;d wasted forcing other people to match her expectations.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>