Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships

Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000

Most conflict escalates for one reason: we label the person instead of naming what we lack. Call someone selfish, lazy, or stupid, and you’ve handed them a reason to defend themselves, and the real issue never gets touched. Rosenberg’s alternative, Nonviolent Communication, replaces the label with four honest pieces of information: what literally happened, the emotion it stirred in you, the need underneath that emotion, and one specific, doable request. Say those four things and the other person has nothing to defend against, because you’re describing your own experience rather than passing a verdict on theirs.

Marshall B. Rosenberg on SummaryShelf

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships