<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Lori Gottlieb on SummaryShelf</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/authors/lori-gottlieb/</link><description>Recent content in Lori Gottlieb on SummaryShelf</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 22 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://summaryshelf.app/authors/lori-gottlieb/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone</title><link>https://summaryshelf.app/maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone/</link><pubDate>Thu, 26 Oct 2023 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://summaryshelf.app/maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Whatever problem someone carries into a therapist&amp;rsquo;s office is usually a cover for a harder one. The man who books an appointment for insomnia and work stress doesn&amp;rsquo;t mention the childhood tragedy for six months. The woman raging at the ex who dumped her can&amp;rsquo;t yet see that she&amp;rsquo;s terrified of dying alone. Healing starts when a person loosens their grip on the version of events they walked in with — and that&amp;rsquo;s brutally hard, because every real change asks you to mourn something you&amp;rsquo;re losing. Lori Gottlieb, a therapist who ends up in therapy herself after a blindsiding breakup, tells the story from both chairs at once.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>