The Happiness Project

Thu, 30 Mar 2023 00:00:00 +0000

Happiness doesn’t arrive in a flash of insight or a dramatic life change. It accrues through unglamorous maintenance — getting enough sleep, clearing a cluttered drawer, swallowing a complaint, actually showing up for a friend. Gretchen Rubin spent a year testing that premise, assigning each month to a different corner of life and tracking whether small, deliberate tweaks to her behavior actually moved her mood. What she found backs up Aristotle’s old claim that happiness is the “chief good,” while puncturing the fantasy that we simply fall into it. You build it, one habit at a time. And often, she discovered, it’s your own choices — complaining, hoarding, gossiping — that are quietly making you unhappy.

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The Happiness Project